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A Message from Bruce Feiler about the Council of Dads

Dear Friends,

 

Thank you for your interest and support of THE COUNCIL OF DADS.  I'm pleased that since our story has been shared around the world, millions have been touched and countless families have started Councils of Moms and Dads to help bring their friends closer to their children.  We have many features on councilofdads.com to help make that process easier.

 

To keep up with the times, we are making important changes to the site.  We are going to make it open to…

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Added by Bruce Feiler on July 11, 2011 at 12:45pm — No Comments

How to support a caregiver

Bruce,

 

Congratulations  on your literary success!  I was very sorry to hear about your battle with cancer.  I read  Council of Dads and was very touched by your open dialogue with the readers especially since I was reading it shortly after my Mother had completed 8 grueling months battling Lymphoma.  During this time she and my Dad lived with me, my husband and 10 yr old son.  Early on in the treatment when I came close to…

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Added by Christine Harnisch Tantum on June 21, 2011 at 4:30pm — No Comments

The Art Of Forgiveness

As humans, we sometimes find it hard to forgive those who hurt us. We’re either too proud or stubborn and would rather ignore the situation and hold a grudge. Unknown to us, this just causes bitterness in our hearts or even creates health problems.



I believe we are spiritual beings experiencing human life to learn lessons, to grow and become more aware of our connection to our soul and God. To forgive those who hurt you can only bring peace in your heart,…
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Added by Muyiwa seun james on May 23, 2011 at 6:30am — No Comments

Give Birth To Your New Self

In a state of constant movement, Mother Earth both confers and terminates life. From the brief lifespan of a sparrow to the epic glacial drift, our planet evolves in the glorious cycles of ebb and flow and growth and decomposition.



In a state of never ending birth, our attitudes towards death may change if we learn from our earthly examples. While the death of wildlife may appear finite, nature in turn gives birth to other creatures in the cycle. If an…
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Added by Muyiwa seun james on May 21, 2011 at 4:53am — No Comments

The Gifts Of Mother Earth

In the month of May, we traditionally honor the woman who gave us birth and/or the woman who nurtured and cared for us - our Mother. The second Sunday brings us crowded restaurants, over-worked florists and candy manufacturers working overtime. It also allows us a day to reflect, with gratitude, on our Mother's love.



In acknowledging the love showered upon us by Mother, our spiritual path calls us to take loving care of ourselves in ways that allow us to…
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Added by Muyiwa seun james on May 21, 2011 at 4:51am — No Comments

tip of the day

Follow the path of the unsafe, independent thinker. Expose your ideas to the dangers of controversy. Speak your mind and fear less the label of 'crackpot' than the stigma of conformity. And on issues that seem important to you, stand up and be counted at any cost.



Not realizing what you want is a problem of knowledge. Not pursuing what you want is a problem of motivation. Not achieving what you want is a problem of persistence.



All successful people men and women are big… Continue

Added by Muyiwa seun james on May 19, 2011 at 4:39am — 1 Comment

Thank you Bruce! I am a soon-to-be mom...

I saw Mr. Feiler on Glenn Beck and I really love this concept in general. I am 5-1/2 mos. pregnant and due June 13, 2011, we are having a son Reagan Joshua. Both my husband and I come from very small families so I think this idea is great for both of us. Neither of us has a serious illness, but this has prompted me to think more about my son's life. I would love to see a book like this for mom's…

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Added by Jeanne Lander on March 1, 2011 at 3:24am — No Comments

Public Membership Temporarily Closed

Due to a recent wave of spammers joining the site, we've temporarily closed open membership while we beef up our defenses. During this time, existing members are still able to invite others to join. We'll have this fixed soon so please keep checking back!  

Added by Bruce Feiler on February 24, 2011 at 12:39pm — No Comments

Raising Boys Alone

Hello everyone and thankyou for such a warm welcome

I hope I have come to the right place. I was guided to this site by a colleague who uses this site in her work with bereaved children. My name is Sam and I have three of the most beautiful boys God ever put on this earth who I am raising alone. I am not a widow, their father left us when our youngest son was a few days old. We lost him to a mental illness which I tried to nurse him through for two years before his illness…

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Added by Sam Neary on August 18, 2010 at 3:29am — No Comments

Raising Boys Alone

Hello everyone and thankyou for such a warm welcome

I hope I have come to the right place. I was guided to this site by a colleague who uses this site in her work with bereaved children. My name is Sam and I have three of the most beautiful boys God ever put on this earth who I am raising alone. I am not a widow, their father left us when our youngest son was a few days old. We lost him to a mental illness which I tried to nurse him through for two years before his illness…

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Added by Sam Neary on August 18, 2010 at 3:29am — No Comments

Miss My Own Kids

If something ever happened to me, I hope the kids would have a caring and capable father to step in to do the job such as yourselves. Kids are on vacation with Mom.

Added by daniel privett on August 11, 2010 at 8:39pm — No Comments

Wishes and Kisses

I'm nearly to the end of the book and am fascinated by this concept.


My father died 4 months before I was born, and his family lived far away when I was a child. For most of my young life, until I was sixteen I searched in quite the same way as an adopted child might search for a biological father. My mother placed great emphasis on my brothers, wanting them to have some fatherly influence. I was an after thought. When I was sixteen and traveling to meet my father's brother…
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Added by Tina Neyer on August 11, 2010 at 7:22am — No Comments

My Husband and cancer.

My Husband, at 32 years old was diagnosed with Stage IV colon cancer. We attend NewSpring Church. In Spring of this year they asked my husband to make a video, talking about his faith and his views on cancer. I would like to share it with you all.…


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Added by Mandy Smith on July 27, 2010 at 9:56am — No Comments

Daddy-bashing is Suddenly Cool! What Should Dads Do?

Daddy-bashing is suddenly cool. The cover story of the latest Atlantic proclaims "The End of Men: How Women Are Taking Control -- of Everything," while inside the magazine Pamela Paul poses the emasculating question, "Are Fathers Necessary?" Her answer, after sifting through the research: probably not. Social scientists have been unable to prove that dads contribute much, she reports. The effort and quality of parenting are what really matter, not parents' gender.

"The bad…

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Added by Bruce Feiler on June 19, 2010 at 10:13am — No Comments

Pay Attention ... things other than cancer can get you ...

When I watched Bruce Feiler interviewed on KERA's "Think" program this

past Sunday it stuck a chord.



Back on August 23, 2008 I was heading down Alma Road in Plano, Texas. A pickup truck ran a stop sign and the paramedics pulled me out from UNDER the pickup truck that ran the sign. I had no clue or warning that my life might have ended that day ... it was a mildly warm day with blue skies and a light breeze. I was heading to McKinney to help a friend move furniture up and down… Continue

Added by Robert Richer on May 17, 2010 at 3:30pm — No Comments

6 Good Men: The Council of Dads Adds New Twist to Friendship

From the New York Daily News.

Bruce Feiler's twin daughters, Eden and Tybee, were 3 when he was diagnosed with a rare form of bone cancer in 2008. Just days afterward, the best-selling…

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Added by Bruce Feiler on April 25, 2010 at 10:56am — No Comments

What Friends Are For: 5 Ways to Be a Better Friend Today

When my wife and I had identical twin daughters five years ago, we thought our friends would consider it "All Hands on Deck." Instead it was "Run the Other Way!" When I got cancer, we thought it would be "Run the Other Way." Instead we experienced the greatest act of friendship we ever felt.

When I learned I was sick, I worried about my three-year-old twin daughters. Would they wonder who I was? Would they yearn for my love? My voice?

I soon thought of a way I…

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Added by Bruce Feiler on April 14, 2010 at 11:19pm — No Comments

Welcome to The Council of Dads

Bestselling author Bruce Feiler was a young father when he was diagnosed with cancer. He instantly worried what his daughters’ lives might be like without him. "Would they wonder who I was? Would they wonder what I thought? Would they lack for my approval, my discipline, my voice?"



Three days later he came up with a stirring idea of how he might give them that voice. He would reach out to six men from all the passages in his life and ask them to be present through the passages in… Continue

Added by Bruce Feiler on April 2, 2010 at 6:30pm — No Comments

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